October 7, 1988 at 04:21 PM
Polanco, Polanco I Sección, Mexico City, CDMX, Mexico
(innner circle)
November 30, 1992 at 03:00 AM
Krasnokamsk, Perm Krai, Russia
(outer circle)
In synastry house overlays, you explore how your planets, like the Sun, align in your partner's chart, and how their planets, like Venus, fit into yours.
Discover how your Sun, Moon, and Rising signs interact with your partner's. Grasping these fundamental astrological elements can illuminate your bond's strengths and growth areas, revealing your core compatibility.
Ever wonder why you and your partner click or clash? Quickly see how your and your partner's elements (Fire, Earth, Air, Water) interact. Learn if your relationship is dominated by any element, well-balanced, or lacking in certain areas for a deeper understanding of your dynamics.
What influences strengthen your bond? Explore how Harmonic, Disharmonic, Uplifting, Key, Emotional, Friendly, Communication Barrier, Karmic, Neutral, and Traumatic planetary aspects in synastry shape your love life, affecting communication, emotions, and destiny in your partnership.
We have identified the following karmic aspects in your relationship. These are some of the most powerful aspects in your synastry. These aspects suggests a significant past-life connection that continues to shape your current dynamics. For example, Saturn's aspects relate to themes of lessons, responsibility, and commitment. Mercury's aspects focus on communication and learning. These aspects are not necessarily bad, but they do highlight an area of potential growth.
Friendly
Harmonic
You two have responded well to each other from the very start. Your individual natures are complementary, but not overly similar. Translation. You're able to appreciate one another's strengths, make up for one another's weaknesses and still maintain your own individuality that is so essential to a healthy soul, as well as a healthy relationship.
Harmonic
Uplifting
This aspect can warm up and strengthen anything else in your charts that may not be as positive. It's rare for either of you to wonder what the other person is talking about or where they're coming from, because there exists a real feeling of kinship between you. You admire one another and respect each other's choices in life, and you both strive to offer each other the support you feel coming your way in spades.
Disharmonic
Emotional
Well, one thing is certain you won't find each other boring. You may not feel physically or romantically attracted to one another in the beginning, but you will definitely feel an attraction of some sort and maybe even a magnetic pull based on your differing personalities that is compelling enough to surprise both of you. There will be a certain level of tension that naturally exists between you, and it will be based on balancing your own individual natures with your ability to offer one another love and support. Your ideals and values will most likely be at odds, and the differences will be apparent from the get-go: Your lover will view you as eccentric, crass or careless, or somehow living on the edge.
Harmonic
Karmic
You both naturally share a lot of respect for each other, and that has allowed you to continue to grow as individuals even as the union between you has gotten stronger. This relationship is, in part, about your personal growth, and about your lover inspiring you in that growth. They're rather work- or career-oriented, but they're open to reminders from you about how to let those things slide every now and again in order to make time for the more fun or romantic side of life. But you two help one another do it.
Disharmonic
Uplifting
At first it was probably infrequent or mild, but as your involvement deepened, you probably found yourselves going head to head more and more often. You two have some basic and important differences when it comes to how life should be lived, and these differences take center stage every time you try to take your relationship to the next level. You take on the image of being overly traditional, even boring, and your lover takes on the image of being unstable and irresponsible and possibly even crazy. But it's much more likely that they're painful disagreements that cut into both your souls.
Disharmonic
Emotional
There is something mysterious, even confusing between you that will always obscure something more important your partner's true feelings for you, perhaps, or their identity as an individual. It might be that you simply can't see them for the person that they truly are, because something below the emotional surface of your relationship muddies your view. This is as difficult to pinpoint as it is to understand, but the effects are felt by both of you. Your lover might have hurt feelings that they refuse to talk about, and they'll insist everything is fine, even though both of you know that's not true.
Friendly
Communication
This aspect produces good emotional empathy and communication. This is a favorable aspect for all sorts of domestic relationships because there is the ability to communicate feelings and emotions.
Harmonic
Emotional
This is one of the best combinations for a romantic attraction. You really enjoy each other's company. You are sexually attracted, and have a sympathetic, emotional harmony with each other. You enjoy an attitude of mutual consideration and kindness.
Harmonic
Uplifting
This comparative aspect often indicates sexual attraction. Uranus supplies a great deal of interest and exciting in the relationship. Together you can have a large circle of friends, and you may use your home as a meeting place for social gatherings, organizations and unusual activities. You encourage each other to be more individualistic and creative and allow freedom of emotional expression.
Harmonic
Uplifting
When you're together, you feel confident and excited, and you sense that your individual energies are heightened and focused by the relationship between you. You find that you're even better suited as business partners than as lovers, because you motivate and inspire one another to such new heights. Alternatively, you find projects to work on as a team within the romantic relationship like raising kids or pets, refinishing furniture for your house or planning out and planting a garden together.
Harmonic
Uplifting
As a couple, your combined energies really create something spectacular and that could start in the bedroom. You're highly attracted to each other, with a very passionate bond. You express your desires in some very similar ways, so you don't have many chances or reasons to misread each other's signals. You feel stimulated when you're together, awake, aware, tuned in to all the possibilities that the world has to offer you.
Disharmonic
Uplifting
The energy between you has to find a good outlet, because there is a lot of it. Either way, you have a big effect on each other. Your partner might act as cheerleader to your life in a sort of exuberant way that could go overboard at times. If you try, you'll be able to learn how to curb the recklessness you two seem to feel, and to focus your otherwise scattershot energies. Doing things jointly can help a lot in giving your energy a focus and an outlet. Your partner push you to say what you really mean, to focus your energies and efforts and get more done than you would have on your own, but at the same time, they might go too far they have big ideas and dreams that might be beyond the scope of what you can actually accomplish together.
Harmonic
Karmic
Together you two can accomplish just about anything you put your minds to, withering the competition, turning obstacles to dust and achieving greatness. So how are you going to use this special, powerful influence?You each have special gifts; the sense of direction and focus that comes naturally to you, for example, is useful to your partner in finding a target for their penetrating insight. Also, don't neglect the powerful sexual connection this aspect lends you.
Traumatic
Disharmonic
Getting along with each other is the tricky part of this relationship. You both try to express yourselves in the ways that you know how, but your ways are directly in conflict with your partner's. Small irritations can turn into bigger misunderstandings, and then that impulsive reaction mode clicks into place and then your partner, especially, forgets to be tactful and kind in their rush to get at you.
Communication Barrier
Disharmonic
Small misunderstandings between you are common, and though they usually are not a huge deal in themselves, their cumulative effect could add up to a certain level of tension in your relationship. You just don't read each other right; you misread the cues that come your way and end up feeling unappreciated. Picture this: If your lover thinks you never say thanks for gifts or favors, they develop the perception that you take them for granted when, all along, you've been thanking them for what they bring to the table, and they just can't seem to hear it.
Harmonic
Karmic
Your lover can actually inspire you to express yourself more clearly and honestly. Especially when compared to so many relationships in which the merging of two personalities means the submerging of parts of both, this is a true gift, and one to be properly appreciated. Whatever high-flying, abstract or generally not well-founded ideas you may have, your lover can find a way to give expression and function to those ideas. They have a sobering effect on you, in a way that helps you to stabilize your thought processes.
Disharmonic
Uplifting
The ways in which each of you thinks can provoke irritation in the other. Your partner is more intellectually daring than you, more comfortable with abstract or unorthodox ideas, with taking leaps of faith and changing their mind as many times as is needed which could come across as annoying or even threatening to you. You prefer to take more standard paths toward solving problems and don't want to change your mind once a decision is made. But that more traditional point of view feels limiting to your partner.
Disharmonic
Communication Barrier
Though you two might have gotten along really well for a time, you realized after a while that there's some sort of disconnect in your communication. This could be a major pattern of willful dishonesty, but it's more likely to be as minor and intangible as them holding a part of themselves back due to insecurity or past experiences and then you followed suit, because you felt vulnerable and self-protective when you picked up on this strange vibe. Of course, when we're courting a lover and falling in love, it's perfectly natural to put our best face forward but doing so hides that whole other side of ourselves that comes out later, the side that isn't so kind and smart and well-thought-out. And if we've been in troubled relationships in the past, in which we learned to keep parts of ourselves secret as a method of self-protection, it's hard to relearn to live and love openly.
Disharmonic
Uplifting
This relationship is intense, at least sometimes. Your bond might have been very strong from the start, which could give you a sense of fatedness as if you're somehow supposed to be in this relationship, as if it's larger than either of you as individuals could possibly be. That feeling arises not from any actual karmic destiny, however, but from some basic differences between you that create separation on a variety of levels. You are focused on your personal growth during the course of this relationship, and may pursue that growth to the detriment of your bond as a couple.
Harmonic
Uplifting
You encourage your partner to be the person they want to be to pursue their goals, achieve their ambitions and become the success that they have the potential for within them. This encouraging energy is an active part of your day-to-day interactions, but it also comes through as a sort of effortless good-luck vibe. Your passions are aroused whenever you're around each other; you excite them, and your physical intimacy also furthers the good feelings and sense of fortune that characterizes your relationship.
Harmonic
Uplifting
Your relationship creates a supportive energy that gives you both room to be the people that you are. The sense of purpose you feel when you're together is inspiring; you want to get big things done, launch creative projects, move forward in your lives as individuals and as a couple. It could even feel as if your purpose is revealed simply by forging a relationship together. This is not to say that the relationship itself is your sole purpose; instead, something in the way you relate with each other reveals where you should go next.
Harmonic
Karmic
You two are able to work together and achieve some major goals under the influence of this aspect, but this process is hardly simple and effortless. It's true that you have a naturally attuned gift as a couple as your expansive ideas pair up with your lover's strong sense of responsibility; and putting these gifts together has great results. But you have to be open to the benefits of this combination. As a couple, you have the strengths needed for hard and focused work a vision for the future, a sense of discipline but you don't get anywhere except when you make sure to treat each other with respect.
Disharmonic
Emotional
Jealousy, emotional manipulation, possessiveness and control are likely major components of this relationship if you both weren't careful to sort out your feelings from the start. Your sexual attraction to them may also be overwhelming, and you feel transformed by your intimate experiences together. Your emotional lives are closely linked, almost without your having noticed when they merged. Any separations could leave you feeling intensely insecure, even abandoned, but if that happens, it might have more to do with the kind of dependency your lover has worked hard to create than with anything really to do with you.
Disharmonic
Emotional
You stimulate the most idealistic parts of your lover's nature, which sounds nice except that you could encourage them to step off the edge of the mundane world and into the stratosphere with you. Your lover is so idealistic when they're with you that they could become quite irresponsible. After all, if all their focus and interest goes toward the uplifting feeling of being together, they don't get much done in the way of tedious, day-to-day responsibilities. You talk each other up and it could be hard to come down again and face reality when it intrudes, which it has a nasty habit of doing.
Harmonic
Emotional
This aspect's influence is intense for both of you. You could both feel as if you're on the verge of something when you're together a wild new idea, the realization of a lifelong fantasy and, in truth, you probably are. Your deepest, most abstract ideals, the ones you've probably kept to yourself for the most part out of nervousness that no one will understand them, finds radical form and expression in this relationship. On your partner's side, their creativity is enhanced, and their spirituality grows by leaps and bounds.
Emotional
Harmonic
Since you're close in age, musically and artistically, you're a wonderful match. Music and films are a big focus for you as well, and a great activity for you two could be a trip to an art gallery or going to see a movie or a show. You're dreamy together; your feelings for each other quickly move into the realm of the fantastical. Since you have such a dreamy connection, you could spend a lot of time in this other world of your own creation which could be a good thing or a bad one.
Harmonic
Karmic
You dominate this person's dreams, their sexual energy, their waking life and their imagination. You have a strangely magnetic hold over them, and as long as you're both open and honest about your own position in the relationship whether or not you want things to be serious, for example this influence should make for a positive, even transformative experience for both of you. If you are both in it for the long haul, let each other know that as well.
Traumatic
Disharmonic
This aspect doesn't make things easy between you, and it could make it really hard to get along. Does your partner need to grow up a little. There is always a feeling between you that things are not fine far from it and you'd better fix it fast, or else.
Harmonic
Karmic
You talk at length about your beliefs, and you support each other's causes. Going to rallies or book readings together could become a big part of your relationship, because ideas are important to you big ideas that could change the world. You both want to get out there and into the mix of things, and the fervor of your activities could definitely fuel your passion for each other. You could get very involved in something that you discover as a couple a movement, an inspirational author, Pilates or yoga something that you do with the clear thought in mind of making your lives better, more consciously lived, more important.
Harmonic
Karmic
The effects of this aspect are probably subtle, but that doesn't mean they aren't important. Your lover has a tender and compassionate heart, and they've always wanted to make a difference in the world to make it a better place for someone in need, perhaps, or even just to contribute to the greater good by being the kindest, most compassionate person they can. They treat everyone around them with respect, and the way that they naturally are is an inspiration to you, as you have deep wells of power and emotion that could be paired up with this person's sense of compassion for great results. The two of you together equals personal power plus strength of ideals.
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In synastry house overlays, you explore how your planets, like the Sun, align in your partner's chart, and how their planets, like Venus, fit into yours. This technique offers insights into how your personalities and energies intertwine and impact your relationship.
You guys will certainly notice each other even in a crowded room. Your eyes will lock and there is often an instant curiosity or attraction. This aspect usually indicates that you approve of each other, there is not a long warming up period where you suss each other out; you tend to know from the get go that there is something there and you want to get to know each other better, as there is obviously potential.
The fact that you appreciate your partner is obvious to them as you will display an immediate affection towards them and they will respond to you as they feel pleasantly accepted in your presence.
This is a fortunate aspect to have as you give each other an ego boost which leads to a sense of shared purpose and camaraderie in the relationship. At the beginning of the relationship it is easy to make decisions as you often agree. Whether this will continue depends on other factors.
As time goes on you both can become rather competitive and there may be a sense that you stifle each other and step on each other’s toes. You may even develop a little resentment for each other and there is a need for space.
You may awaken many aspects of your partner’s personality that were dormant, especially in relation to identity and personal expression. This is a stimulating and energising combination which can make you both more self-aware, even if you both often feel eclipsed in some way by the other at times.
Your partner makes you feel more valued and important and that makes this a very good aspect for love, as love should always make you feel special and this aspect does that for each of you.
The 12th house is a rather nebulous and mysterious one linked to emotions, psychology, dreams, the unknown and also big institutions, hospitals, libraries, archives and places of retreat, it is the house where we are somewhat backstage and a cog in a much bigger wheel. This indicates you connection is to a place or phase of life – you may have met in rehab or while researching something, you may both work for a very big organisation.
This placement indicates many secrets. You both have an intuitive understanding and even a spiritual link and yet you may not spell things out to each other or discuss practical matters in detail. You may ignore practical matters altogether. You are very aware of each other’s moods and emotions and that can generate much compassion, but also can make your feel constantly responsible for each other. Your sensitivity to each other can end up creating a spiral of self-sacrifice and an inability to have separate lives without some guilt. You are able to play on feelings of guilt within your partner.
The intimacy is both deep and intense and yet there may not be passion as the other emotions, which weigh so heavily, may dampen the lust and physical desire. You and your partner may enjoy having a bubble of escapism around you where you almost shut yourselves off from other people and life in general and seek to escape together.
Your partner may feel you know them so well it is almost uncomfortable and they may try and keep secrets from you. There can end up being a lack of trust. While you both read each other emotionally so well and truly get each other on a deep level, one of you may feel an open book and may seek to close that book somewhat, which creates great hurt for the other. Hurt feelings go with this placement.
The sixth house is not very romantic, it is not about Teddy bears, flowers, love letters or great excitement in the bedroom. It is a practical house and your Mars here indicates that you will do much for each other in terms of useful activities day to day. It is all about showing love by being considerate, helpful, dutiful and pragmatic.
You may inspire your partner in fitness and help them to be more motivated about their diet. They can help you to streamline and focus your energy and be more efficient. Together you become a finely tuned unit ready to eliminate fuss and clutter, get healthy and be successful.
You could meet via skills training at work. Your partner may be your teacher or coach. Self-improvement is key to this love match.
Over time you may feel your partner is too critical and fault finding, they may slow you down and dwell over details that bore you. They could find you ride roughshod over their efforts.
This placement does not bring much passion and tends to be functional and robotic, however this placement loves to learn, so I bet there will be a copy of the karma sutra in your house somewhere as you, as a couple want sex to be better and won't be shy of reading up on new methods.
Your partner may prefer to work alone as they could find you bossy and interfering. They could retreat more and more and will definitely want a den, a shed or some private space.
The communication between you is excellent from the start and you both feel comfortable and able to chat, even if you are usually shy; there are some very obvious shared interests and the conversation is light and bubbly.
You are both talkative right throughout the relationship. You tend to understand and anticipate what your partner is going to say before they even say it and you may finish off their sentences or interrupt. You bring change and variety to your partner’s life and may introduce them to many new friends and acquaintances. This is an exciting match that bodes well for spontaneity and an interesting life. You may steal each other’s thunder and some time apart is needed so that you can both have the intellectual limelight to yourself.
You have much in common and enjoy the same subjects – this relationship is friendly and fun, you are both curious and enjoy trying new things together as well as socialising.
You understand your partner well and they get you, your partner likes the way you think and it is not hard to agree on every day matters.
You are immediately drawn to your partner as they appear interesting and quite sexy. This combination however often gives rise to superficial sex and you may both find it hard to get the passion you need as there are too many distractions.
You understand your partner very well and are highly responsive to their whims and desires. At times their approach to life and their outward manner annoys you. This relationship may be fun and flirtatious and yet it may not last, although I am sure you will remain friends.
This placement brings expansion, optimism and success. Whatever you are doing, it gets bigger and better when you team up with this partner. In some cases, this combination encourages waste and excess, you may both never know when enough is enough.
You may meet while traveling and your life together may be one long journey, where you never settle down for long. ‘A rolling stone gathers no moss’ is a key saying for this pairing. There is a great need to keep striving and that is why this combo breeds success. There can however, be an obsessive sense that the grass is greener on the other side and this can lead to a restlessness which ends up destroying your emotional life. You both need to put down roots and focus on what really matters, there is a time to seek, but endless seeking indicates neither of you understand what really counts.
You guys may meet in the course of study, you may help your partner with their studies or be their teacher. Your partner may feel somewhat intellectually inferior to you and you may exhibit some intellectual snobbery.
You may have similar views in terms of moral and ethical issues and you could enjoy worship together.
You stimulate each other's interest in social, political and community matters and you tend to be an outward looking couple engaged in life.
There is much to be learned from each other and life will not be stagnant, it will be dynamic and will facilitate personal development.
This placement is one of the positive one and it will revolutionise your life as it can bring renewed impetus to follow dreams and fulfil your hopes. This partner can bring many new and existing people into your life ad your friendship circle increases. If you are a shy person or have been lonely or isolated, this will really kick start a new more gregarious phase in your life.
This is great for establishing a rapport both intellectually and in terms of having many shared interest. You may come together while supporting a cause. You get along very well and are always able to find some common ground and way to get around problems. There may be so much energy dissipated in outside interests that there is too little left for love and affection and your intimate life tends to be last on the list. Your friendship will always survive, but you may drift apart in terms of physical affection and quality time if you are not careful and so not make time for love.
This placement means that a partner could help you to network or take more advantage of group situations or professional associations in order to fulfil your aspirations. Your partner could help you to be more discriminating in your choice of friends – you are judged by the company you keep your partner could help you to see that some friends hold you back and stop you reaching your potential.
You partner and you will enjoy socialising and have an active friendship and networking circle. This is a busy and interesting combination with plenty to talk about and many avenues of interest to follow.
This brings some issues in terms of how you communicate with each other or as a couple. You may cut in, finish your partner's sentences or reveal the punch line of their jokes. You could dominate conversations, making them withdraw, or perhaps you are naturally a quite person, who does not find chatting easy and so you encourage your partner to be more reticent verbally.
There could even be a language barrier that makes the free flow of communication difficult. Bottom line is that your partner does not communicate as effectively with you as they do with other people and this may well be baffling and frustrating for you.
The pace of your lives and routines may also interfere with communicating – one of you may work shifts meaning you never get that much time together.
You tend to be quite serious together and will have shorter, but more meaningful and direct conversations. You may be the one to help your partner learn a skill or technique or you may help them improve their reading or writing. You partner may feel intellectually inferior to you – in some cases you are the brainer one, but in some cases you are both intelligent, but you are merely the more effective communicator who will tend to dominate this sphere. Over time your partner may get to rely too much on you to deal with correspondence and daily communication requirements.
You may both be either openly or secretively critical of the other and this subtle rather passive aggressive discontent can pervade the relationship and stifle meaningful exchanges.
You have to be careful not to be too dismissive of your partner and cause them to clam up by not fully acknowledging the relevance r important of what they have to say. They key for you is to be more patient, a better listener and to be more tolerant of your partner’s views and unique communication style.
As Uranus moves rather slowly through the zodiac and spends about 7 years in each sign, if you date people of a similar age they may have Uranus in only one of two of your houses and visa versa.
This match is very exciting and you may meet quite by chance, strike up a conversation and hit it off. You are inspired by their ideas and the communication element of your relationship could be so involving that you email, text or call each other all the time.
This relationship brings excitement, sudden travel together and an unusual lifestyle. There is communication at a high level in terms of what is intellectually shared and yet you may not share as effectively when it comes to emotions.
You spur your partner on intellectually and may encourage them to study on or learn a language, you seek to inspire them to think bigger and deeper and use their mind more creatively. You may have high expectations of what they could achieve if they put their mind to it and you may be disappointed when they fail to live up to your expectations in this regard. If you begin to think your partner is lazy or closed minded that can be a big turn off and the relationship could sour.
You like to be spontaneous and will resent restrictions in terms of your partner wishing to live a regimented and routine life.
You tend to know what your partner is going to say before they say it and you will have them sussed in terms of knowing their mind. However, as you know them so well, the relationship could become very predictable, and you may lose hope that the things you do not like in them can ever be changed.
As time goes on a gulf may develop in terms of your ideas and opinions and you will have to be very tolerant in order to keep love alive. If you do end this relationship it will be because you just cannot communicate effectively anymore as your thoughts on key issues are irreconcilable.
As Neptune moves rather slowly through the zodiac and spends about 13 years in each sign, if you date people of a similar age, or even born in the same decade, they may have Neptune in only one or two of your houses and visa versa.
With this combination a lack of commitment or ability to take responsibility may be what troubles you about your partner. However, this placement does indicate a deep level of understanding and that your partner wants to pour their heart out and share with you. Your partner may share extensively about their past and also about their fears and emotional needs. While your partner does share emotions with you, they also confuse you and they may overshare, so much so that you almost get bogged down in their problems and issues, you may feel that your partner cannot move on from anything.
This is a very compassionate partner and you will have many deep and meaningful conversations that go right of the heart of the matter.
Often with this placement one of you has a family member who is heavily dependent on both of you and catering to this person may impinge on your time together. The effect of Neptune in the 4th of your partner, may encourage a gypsy lifestyle where you go from place to place until you find your perfect or spiritual home. You both seek tranquility and peace via your home and family life and this family life is sought as a refuge from the harsh realities of life.
As Pluto moves rather slowly through the zodiac and spends about 18-20 years in each sign, if you date people of a similar age, or even born in the same generation, they may have Pluto in only one or two of your houses and visa versa.
With this placement, money and boundaries are key. You may seek to control or influence the manner in which your partner makes money or handles money. Your partner could find your input invaluable and you may have the tools to revolutionize their business or investments. However you could also be resented by your partner for controlling them via money or prying into their affairs.
You may cause your partner to become secretive as you are always probing away and interfering in what they regard as personal.
While you can help your partner develop confidence, greater self-awareness and self-esteem, you have to be careful not to crowd them and suffocate them.
You may be highly attracted to each other, but you can have very big differences in outlook, which could threaten the relationship even though the sex is great.
In synastry house overlays, you explore how your partner's planets, like the Sun, align in your chart, and how your planets, like Venus, fit into theirs. This technique offers insights into how your personalities and energies intertwine and impact your relationship.
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This is an exciting combination that will lead to new pastures and adventure. There is often a link in terms of religious, political or moral viewpoints. Similar world views and social interests often drive this combination. The key elements to this Sun placement are communication and a meeting of minds, unlike the 8th which is all about passion and chemistry, this 9th house combination is more about intellectual compatibility and a desire for change and stimulation. You may well meet while travelling or while engaged in higher education and indeed, both these things will be hallmarks of your life together.
It is vital that you share a vision and are both change and growth orientated. You bring out a positive, pioneering and proactive side to your partner and with you they are very forgiving and open minded. You are able to inspire and motivate your partner to be more bold and open and to embrace the world as their oyster. You could open your partner up to adventure or foreign lands – in many cases the person represented by the Sun is foreign to the 9th house person, perhaps from a different culture, land or religion.
This combination fosters risk taking and adventure – there are laughs and the ability to see beyond petty concerns. This combination may lack grounding and you could both be a little impractical at times. You need to watch out for exaggeration and over-promising from your partner as you bring out a certain braggadocio in them.
Commitment is a problem and you may not be able to get your partner to settle down. You make you partner more confident and yet that make work against your best interests.
This combination encourages dreaming and goal setting and is not one that gets stuck in a rut. You can expand your partner’s mental, cultural, educational and physical awareness.
The 12th house is a rather nebulous and mysterious one linked to emotions, psychology, dreams, the unknown and also big institutions, hospitals, libraries, archives and places of retreat, it is the house where we are somewhat backstage and a cog in a much bigger wheel. This indicates you connection is to a place or phase of life – you may have met in rehab or while researching something, you may both work for a very big organisation.
This placement indicates many secrets. You both have an intuitive understanding and even a spiritual link and yet you may not spell things out to each other or discuss practical matters in detail. You may ignore practical matters altogether. You are very aware of each other’s moods and emotions and that can generate much compassion, but also can make your feel constantly responsible for each other. Your sensitivity to each other can end up creating a spiral of self-sacrifice and an inability to have separate lives without some guilt. You are able to play on feelings of guilt within your partner.
The intimacy is both deep and intense and yet there may not be passion as the other emotions, which weigh so heavily, may dampen the lust and physical desire. You and your partner may enjoy having a bubble of escapism around you where you almost shut yourselves off from other people and life in general and seek to escape together.
Your partner may feel you know them so well it is almost uncomfortable and they may try and keep secrets from you. There can end up being a lack of trust. While you both read each other emotionally so well and truly get each other on a deep level, one of you may feel an open book and may seek to close that book somewhat, which creates great hurt for the other. Hurt feelings go with this placement.
There are some fireworks. This love match is full of surprises. Things start quickly, either of you will make the move and there is eagerness and mutual sexual attraction.
You may compete hard to keep each other's attention and there is some boasting and one upmanship. This is a competitive combination that spurs you both on creatively and professionally. This is excellent for couples in very competitive back biting industries i.e. banking, the arts, and corporate management as you can motivate and inspire each other. You will both achieve more and become more recognized with this placement.
This is sexually exciting as you will encourage greater sexual expression in your partner and they can come out of their shell in terms of physical and sexual confidence.
They love your spirit and passion and you bring excitement and fun into their lives.
You both enjoy working with children and may act as sports coaches. You will support the arts and enjoy creative activities together.
You both enjoy sharing the lime light, although over time you can pull ahead a little leading to a sense of failure and disappointment in your partner.
In some cases your partner may have an ability they keep totally secret. You may be the one who talks of a career as a singer and then one day your partner gets up and belts out Nessum Dorma and you think, 'Heck, I never knew he/she could do that.'
This indicates travel together and perhaps you will have to learn a new language as a result of knowing your partner. You may have shared political or religious views.
You may encourage your partner to think bigger and make more plans for their future. You will be the one to plan travel and make arrangements for the longer term. In some cases you stimulate your partner’s need for some philosophical context for their life and you can be their guru, the one who puts all those puzzle pieces into a master plan. You are often the optimist, the person in the relationships who sees the glass as half full and encourages more optimism and also faith in your destiny as a couple. You tend to open up possibilities and encourage your partner to think big.
There can be a mutual interests in cultural and social issues and you may also be the one to introduce your partner to an eclectic bunch of new friends that can bring variety and more understanding to his life.
Your partner may get annoyed if he/she feels you are always pushing for more and are never quite satisfied; he/she may feel you want more than they can ever give. Your partner may love you tales as you may be more world or well-travelled than they are. You can both grow intellectually, and in terms of greater appreciation of life and its meaning, together.
This is a great placement for those who mean in the course of higher education and who love study, reading and travel. You may well both work in law or teaching.
Send out the wedding invites now, and chose your venue as this is an excellent placement for marriage.
You have a great capacity to make your partner happy and bring out the best in them in terms of commitment and affection.
You will both sense the potential for marriage from the get go, although your partner may be more eager to move things along quickly than you. You may seem like everything they want and more and yet there is always the danger of expectations being are too high. Too high, too far, too soon, as the song goes.
All relationships have ups and downs and yet you guys should have the optimism and sense of adventure to ride things out and keep the changes and improvements coming.
This match thrives on goals and you should always have a vision for the future. You aim big as a couple and a sense of being on the same exciting journey is uniting.
You have to watch out for undermining your partner and taking all the decisions. You tend to be hasty and impatient and will always rush your partner into things. You need to learn to respect those times when your partner is undecided and give them time.
You bring a great deal to this partnership and may overplay your hand, taking a dominant role. However, happiness and prosperity are pretty much guaranteed and there will always be honesty and openness.
This placement is one of the positive one and it will revolutionise your life as it can bring renewed impetus to follow dreams and fulfil your hopes. This partner can bring many new and existing people into your life ad your friendship circle increases. If you are a shy person or have been lonely or isolated, this will really kick start a new more gregarious phase in your life.
This is great for establishing a rapport both intellectually and in terms of having many shared interest. You may come together while supporting a cause. You get along very well and are always able to find some common ground and way to get around problems. There may be so much energy dissipated in outside interests that there is too little left for love and affection and your intimate life tends to be last on the list. Your friendship will always survive, but you may drift apart in terms of physical affection and quality time if you are not careful and so not make time for love.
This placement means that a partner could help you to network or take more advantage of group situations or professional associations in order to fulfil your aspirations. Your partner could help you to be more discriminating in your choice of friends – you are judged by the company you keep your partner could help you to see that some friends hold you back and stop you reaching your potential.
You partner and you will enjoy socialising and have an active friendship and networking circle. This is a busy and interesting combination with plenty to talk about and many avenues of interest to follow.
This is a very interesting and deep combination. This placement indicates that you can provide a great deal of psychological awareness to your partner. You can benefit your partner by helping them to recognise and get to grips with habits and patterns of behaviour that are destructive. You may help them to refocus and reorientate their energy toward new more productive activities by stamping out negative thinking.
However, your awareness of your partner’s weak point is so astute that you could, either deliberately or perhaps subconsciously, use that to your advantage. This may go very well or very badly and that could all be down to you as you seem to be closely to the Nuclear Button. You are the one who has control and power, but it is a subtle power that operates on a very deep level.
You may feel responsible for your partner and you need to be aware of being martyred in this relationship – your partner may use guilt as a weapon. Over time this relationship can exhaust you and yet you may not be able to walk away as you are strangely committed to it. You partner knows how to play on your sense of duty and obligation. Obligation and how far that goes is a question you have to keep asking in this love match.
You can both grow spiritually in this union and it will be have a deep and lasting effect on you both, it may not be much fun and yet there can be romance as you tend to spend a lot of time alone together.
You and your partner may enjoy sharing secrets and plotting in secret. You may both be loners.
As Uranus moves rather slowly through the zodiac and spends about 7 years in each sign, if you date people of a similar age they may have Uranus in only one of two of your houses and visa versa.
This placement indicates great friendship and commonality in interest. You may enjoy political and group endeavours together and you spark many new interests in your partner. You may sometimes get your partner involved in things that go against their better judgement. On occasion you may embarrass or even humiliate your partner as you could be more gung ho and gregarious about things of which they are reticent.
You will introduce your partner to an eclectic bunch of friends and yet they are not really friends, they are just an odd collection of no bodies who may not add much value to your life.
You may not like the company your partner keeps and you could be very critical of their friends; you may be a little judgemental when it comes to their social life and may be too opinionated about who is good for hem and who isn’t.
You could be dismayed at some of your partner’s aims and goals in life – you could consider them either unambitious or misguided and you may seek to influence what they do and how they do it. Your inclination to assume what is right for your partner and what will make them happy can drive a wedge between you and you need to be more tolerant of their innate desires and personal hopes and dreams.
Live and let live and love each other for what they are is key to the success of this love match.
As Neptune moves rather slowly through the zodiac and spends about 13 years in each sign, if you date people of a similar age, or even born in the same decade, they may have Neptune in only one or two of your houses and visa versa.
Your partner and you may have a wonderful and deep friendship, you will tend to move in similar circles and have similar dreams and desires. Your relationship may be based on tolerance and a great deal of understanding based on a shared life view or perspective. You will tend to share political and social values and you may have mutual friends in common.
Communication is excellent and you may both become more community orientated via this relationship. You could meet doing humanitarian or social work and your mutual concern for others and for a better world may be something which cements the relationship.
Often this relationship becomes impersonal and lacks intensity, other significant friendships which you both have could impede your relationship and too much emphasis is placed on other people in your life rather than on what passes between you. You may chase rainbows together, but in the process you lose touch with what the relationship once meant.
This can be an exciting combo, but you need to keep working at affection, sex and quality emotional communication.
As Pluto moves rather slowly through the zodiac and spends about 18-20 years in each sign, if you date people of a similar age, or even born in the same generation, they may have Pluto in only one or two of your houses and visa versa.
This placement can bring excitement, experimentation and risk taking together.
If you are young, you may be tear-a-ways, if you are older you could be revolutionaries.
You must try not to be dogmatic as you can become fixated on proving a point or converting your partner to your point of view.
You must learn to be more accepting and tolerant as if you listen more to your partner, their wisdom could be highly useful and enlightening. You need to talk less and listen more in this relationship and you will be amazed at what happens.
This relationship brings excitement and some radical new adventures into your life and yet the break neck speed could become too hectic.
Not a good match for those who want to settle down and have a quiet life.
Curious about the energy flow in your relationship? See how your planets are spread across the hemispheres of your charts and how this affects your relationship dynamic. Are you both inclined towards self-reliance or a partnership approach? This understanding can assist you in aligning your individual life and love strategies.
You and Andrei have contrasting energetic focuses based on the hemispheres represented in your charts.
With most planets in your Western houses, Sam, you tend to be receptive and relationship-oriented, while self-directed Andrei has their planets primarily in the Eastern hemisphere.
This combination requires some adjustment, but can still work. Andrei stimulates you to be more independent and seize initiative rather than waiting on others’ cues.
Yet their go-getter approach may occasionally make you feel left behind or dismissed. Communicate calmly when this happens.
Meanwhile, your considerate way of including others’ input helps temper Andrei’s self-driven zeal. Over time you can balance each other out – with Andrei learning to sometimes slow down, and you learn to keep up and match their dynamic pace. Together your different energies create a well-rounded whole.
You and Andrei have contrasting energetic orientations, based on the hemispheres emphasized in your charts.
As a Southern-focused Sam, you lead with an objective, outward emphasis, while the subjective Northern hemisphere fuels Andrei's inward focus.
This combination requires compromise but brings mutual gifts. Andrei helps ensure you don't become all work and no play, pulling you back to nurture your inner landscape.
Yet you may wish for more outer stimulation from their hidden depths. Meanwhile, your engaging style draws Andrei out of their cocoon to participate in broader social spheres.
Over time you can inspire each other to cultivate underdeveloped sides – finding fulfilling outer pursuits for Andrei and contemplative introspection for you. Together your differing energies create a tapestry integrating both inward richness and outward connectedness.
Assess how your and your partner's zodiac signs can predict personality dynamics, pinpoint where clashes might occur, and reveal the potential for lasting love compatibility.
You, as a Libra, embody diplomacy, harmony, and a strong sense of justice, symbolized by the scales. Your tireless pursuit of balance and fairness captivates others, as they are drawn to your refined nature and appreciation for beauty. On the other hand, as a Sagittarius, your adventurous spirit, optimism, and independence shine through as the archer.
Your insatiable thirst for knowledge and exploration inspires those around you with your honest and enthusiastic demeanor. Together, your shared affinity for freedom, intellectual stimulation, and new experiences creates a dynamic and captivating energy.
In the realm of love, Libra and Sagittarius share a natural harmony that dances like the wind. As a Libra, seeking balance and harmony is inherent to your being, while Sagittarius' adventurous spirit is drawn to your captivating energy.
Your connection is marked by a shared love for freedom, exploration, and intellectual stimulation. While occasional clashes may arise due to Libra's desire for stability conflicting with Sagittarius' need for independence, open communication and understanding bridge these differences, allowing your love to flourish.
As you journey through the realm of compatibility, the union of Libra and Sagittarius reveals areas of natural harmony intertwined with potential clashes. You share a deep love for freedom, intellectual stimulation, and new experiences, fostering a natural compatibility rooted in adventure and exploration.
Your shared optimism and openness create a vibrant and captivating blend of energies that inspire growth. However, conflicts may arise when Libra's desire for balance and harmony clashes with Sagittarius' independent and sometimes impulsive nature. By embracing open communication, respecting each other's individuality, and finding common ground, you can navigate these clashes and forge a harmonious path forward.
Have you both felt misunderstood about what makes you feel safe and secure in love? Knowing how the Moon's position affects emotional security in your relationship can enhance your emotional connection and support, by learning about each other's needs for safety and comfort.
You, PRIMARY_NAME, with your Moon in Virgo, find a sense of dignity in your attention to detail and practical service. This is particularly evident at night, when Virgo's triplicity gives your Moon an extra sense of purpose. In contrast, your partner, PARTNER_NAME, with their Moon in Aquarius, might feel less anchored in traditional dignities. They navigate ideas and group consciousness, finding their unique space in the last degrees of Aquarius. While both of you may not possess conventional Moon dignities, you find strength in the unique qualities your signs bestow upon you.
You understand that your need to feel useful and productive, to engage with the world in a way that improves and refines, is central to your being. Your core needs revolve around being of service and enhancing the tangible aspects of life. On the other hand, PARTNER_NAME's core needs center on acceptance within a group, feeling like a part of something larger, and being recognized for their unique contributions to the collective. Together, you can help each other fulfill these needs by combining your practical skills with PARTNER_NAME's visionary ideas.
As you, PRIMARY_NAME, learn to appreciate the spiritual and gain perspective beyond the immediate, PARTNER_NAME also has lessons to embrace. Their journey involves appreciating the individual's value, even when it seems to conflict with the group's needs. You both have the opportunity to grow by integrating your practicality with PARTNER_NAME's understanding of broader societal patterns, teaching each other that both individual and collective needs can coexist and enhance one another.
You feel safest when you are in control of the details, nurturing others through practical means, while PARTNER_NAME finds comfort in shared beliefs and social connections. Your relationship can become a sanctuary if you recognize these safety needs. Your grounding presence can offer stability, while PARTNER_NAME can remind you of the importance of community and shared ideals. Together, you create a dynamic where both of you feel secure and valued.
When details are missed or chaos ensues, you, PRIMARY_NAME, feel your sense of security slipping away. For PARTNER_NAME, the threat comes from a lack of group harmony or when their ideals are challenged. Acknowledging these fears can help both of you navigate moments of stress. You can learn to embrace PARTNER_NAME's flexibility, while they can appreciate the stability that comes from your attention to detail.
In times of threat, you might become excessively critical, zeroing in on imperfections, while PARTNER_NAME might retreat into their mind, clinging to theories and ideals. Understanding these instinctive reactions can help both of you to support each other. PARTNER_NAME can encourage you to step back and see the bigger picture, while you can help them to connect theories to practical realities.
Your emotions are experienced and expressed in a grounded and meticulous manner, aware of the nuances in your feelings. In contrast, PARTNER_NAME's emotional expression is more abstract, compassionate towards humanity as a whole rather than individuals. By recognizing these differences, you both can learn from each other. You can help ground PARTNER_NAME's compassion in tangible acts, while they can teach you the power of a broader emotional perspective.
Do you both feel understood in how you show love? Know how Venus influences your expressions of love and appreciation. Understanding your and your partner's Venus signs and houses can deepen your mutual understanding and love languages.
You, Sam, with Venus in Virgo, understand the nuances of love that focuses on service and attention to detail. Though Venus in Virgo may sometimes struggle to express love openly, you find dignity in the subtlety and practicality of your affection. In contrast, Andrei with their Venus in Capricorn, finds a natural sense of dignity and stability in love. Your Venus gains strength through practicality and service, while theirs is strengthened by tradition and commitment. Together, you both appreciate the practical and enduring expressions of affection, each contributing a unique and grounded perspective to the relationship.
Your need for a structured relationship with clear boundaries resonates well with Andrei's desire for practicality and utility in the partnership. Both of you value tangible ways to manifest your commitment, understanding that love is as much about the work put into it as the emotional connection. Andrei seeks usefulness and productivity in love, while you find comfort in creating enduring traditions and structures. Your mutual pursuit is for a love that is practical, reliable, and enduring.
Your lesson, Sam, is to embrace the flexibility that Andrei's Virgoan qualities bring to your relationship. Their pursuit of perfection is complemented by your Capricornian patience and resilience. Letting down your walls will allow Andrei to feel that their efforts to enhance the relationship are valued and appreciated. Similarly, Andrei learns that perfection is an ongoing journey, influenced by your understanding that strong foundations take time and effort to build, including emotional connections.
You feel loved, Sam, when Andrei commemorates significant occasions and shows their affection through thoughtful, tangible gifts. For you, it's the thought and effort behind the gesture that count. Andrei, in turn, feels appreciated when you recognize the small yet significant details of your shared life. This mutual exchange of thoughtfulness and recognition strengthens your bond.
Andrei may feel neglected when details or special events are overlooked by you. They need to see that you value the care and effort they put into the relationship. Conversely, you might feel unappreciated if Andrei seems indifferent to the relationship or fails to show their commitment through practical actions. Both of you rely on these expressions of dedication to feel secure in your partnership.
In the face of rejection, your instinct, Sam, is to build emotional defenses and focus on practical solutions to strengthen the relationship. You may put more effort into overcoming challenges, seeking physical manifestations of your commitment. Andrei, meanwhile, might analyze what went wrong and strive for improvements. Both of you naturally turn to problem-solving as a means to address feelings of rejection.
In expressing affection, you, Sam, might opt for buying expensive gifts, demonstrating the value you place on the relationship through material means. Andrei shows their love by remembering small occasions and offering practical help or thoughtful gestures. Together, your expressions of love are grounded in reality but are also enriched by the meticulous attention you both pay to the details that shape your shared experiences.
How does Mars element in your charts impact how you both pursue goals and express passion in your relationship? Discover the role of Mars' elemental placement in your dynamic.
When your Mars in Fire interacts with Andrei's Mars in Water, you are both intuitive yet impractical people. However, Andrei may find you too self-righteous and egoistic at times. While you enjoy lively debates, Andrei prefers to avoid confrontation. You express yourself in an excitable, self-centered manner, while Andrei wants to connect more sensitively. Your direct, brash nature can be off-putting for the more subtle Andrei. And Andrei's silences and sensitivity can dampen your enthusiasm. Learning to understand and respect these core differences is key.
However, you can benefit each other if you make the effort. You can infuse Andrei's plans with optimistic vision and enthusiasm. And Andrei can teach you to be more sensitive to others when taking action. Finding compromise here is rewarding.
At your cores, you both tend to intuit rather than analyze situations. And you are both warm people overall. Understanding this common ground can help you communicate better.
Communication is key. How does Mercury's elemental position affect how you both communicate? Understanding the influence of Mercury can shape the way you connect and converse.
When your Mercury in Air interacts with Andrei's Mercury in Water, there can be conflict between your need to be detached in thoughts and communication and Andrei's desire to keep things personal. You analyze issues from all sides, while Andrei's intuits their way through problems. Andrei's can become impatient with your need to excessively analyze situations when Andrei's just "knows" things instinctively. You seem to detach yourself from emotions during discussion, which can frustrate Andrei's, who has a warmer, more subjective approach. You look to the outside world for answers while Andrei's relies more on inner feelings.
However, you can benefit each other. Andrei's can help you focus intellectual energies instead of scattering them. Andrei's helps you understand what you really feel, not just think. You can help Andrei's think more objectively and communicate with refinement.
You both care about your partner’s views and what others think. Your less self-centered thinking connects you.
What do you both unconsciously desire from each other? Explore the impact of fate and subconscious choices in your relationship. Understanding the Vertex can point to deeper, possibly predestined aspects of your connection.
As someone with your Vertex in Virgo, Sam, you find yourself unconsciously drawn to Andrei, who radiates the fiery spirit of an Aries Vertex.
The precision and attention to detail that you naturally gravitate towards may initially seem at odds with the impulsiveness and directness that Andrei embodies. Yet, there's a part of you intrigued by their spontaneity and courage, traits that could bring a refreshing dynamic into your meticulous world.
Although their boldness can be daunting, it also presents an opportunity for you to explore a side of life that's less about control and more about embracing the unknown. This could be a stirring call to balance, inviting you to let go of perpetual analysis and allow Andrei's enthusiasm to guide you toward new experiences.
In any relationship, you, Sam, treasure your ability to think critically and maintain a structured environment, just as a Virgo Vertex would suggest.
But what's fascinating when paired with Andrei, who holds their individuality dearly with an Aries Vertex, is how you both can learn from each other. You might at times find Andrei's assertiveness overwhelming, clashing with your own preference for analysis over action.
Yet, this very trait in Andrei can inspire you to assert your ideas and cultivate your confidence. By recognizing the strengths in your differences, you can foster a mutual respect that lets both of you shine. You don't have to lose yourself in the relationship; rather, you can be support pillars for each other's ambitions.
When it comes to the dynamics of your relationship with Andrei, Sam, the intertwining of your Vertex in Virgo and their Vertex in Aries sets the stage for a compelling mix of practicality and passion.
Your natural inclination towards service and improvement can be a solid grounding force for Andrei's pioneering spirit. However, this dynamic has its challenges. The Aries-led tendency towards immediate action and the Virgo-driven need for meticulous planning may lead to friction.
It's important for both of you to acknowledge and embrace your different approaches to life's hurdles. Through patience and communication, you can harness Andrei's bold energy and your analytical skills to form a partnership where challenges are met with both spontaneity and strategy, leading to growth that satisfies you both emotionally and intellectually.
Curious about the qualities you both consciously seek in partners? This analysis can help you both understand the qualities you're drawn to and how this shapes your relationship choices, aiding in more informed decisions in love.
Sam, with your Descendant in Virgo, you're instinctively drawn to someone who embodies order, meticulousness, and a pragmatic approach—traits you often find in Andrei, whose Descendant falls into energetic Aries.
The essence of Aries brings forth a love of independence, a fiery disposition, and a drive that can sweep you off your feet. While you admire Andrei's passion and decisiveness, it might initially seem at odds with your preference for stability and structure.
To harmonize this dynamic, acknowledge that Andrei's bold spirit can ignite your own capacity for spontaneity and adventure, offering a complement to your meticulous nature. Embrace the lessons that come from the unexpected twists and turns of being with someone assertive who challenges you to step outside your comfort zone.
In your partnership, Sam, you yearn for a balanced blend of the spiritual and the practical—a goal that might seem at variance with Andrei's Aries tendency to prioritize the self and look for immediate results.
Yet, this contrast can become a powerful catalyst for growth. You appreciate the deeper connections and seamless execution of life's necessities. In turn, inspire Andrei to see the value in planning and how it can lead to both personal and joint success.
Teach each other: Let Andrei's Aries-driven spontaneity show you the thrill of living in the moment, while you introduce the satisfaction of a well-strategized path. Consciously working towards shared goals that respect both your methodical nature and Andrei's zeal can create a diverse yet united front in achieving your dreams.
The dynamic you seek in a relationship, Sam, is vastly different from the one Andrei might be inclined towards, given their Aries Descendant.
You crave an environment that is orderly and efficient, where the minutiae of daily living are tended to with care, and spiritual connection is nurtured. However, Andrei is energized by straightforward communication and immediate action, sometimes foregoing detailed planning for the sake of action.
To create a mutually satisfying dynamic, strive for a blend of your structured approach with Andrei's assertive energy. This can lead to a partnership where responsibilities are handled with both precision and enthusiasm, and decisions are made confidently yet thoughtfully. Respect the need for individuality and timely action that Andrei holds dear while inviting Andrei to appreciate the peace that comes from a well-organized life plan.
Pluto Square Moon - J o B
The Challenges
Ritual for Deeper Connection
Find a safe and private space where you won't be disturbed. Each of you will take some time to reflect and write about the worst behaviors you've witnessed within your relationship (including your own). Afterward, find a safe way to burn or symbolically destroy your writing.
Benefits of the Ritual
Sun Square Uranus - A o H
The Challenges
Crystals to Deepen Your Bond
You can choose to work with either Labradorite or Tiger's Eye, or use both together for their combined benefits.
How These Crystals Benefit You
Ways to Connect with the Crystals
The Challenges
Affirmations for Difficult Moments
Activities to Nurture Your Connection
Focus on Partnership