Synastry Chart Report

You've both had an instinctive idea of what's good for each of you and the relationship from the very start. Even if there are other more troublesome aspects between you, this one can help warm things up and stabilize your bond. This relationship is one that's characterized by growth and success. If you haven't already, you'll find you both go through some changes as individuals that can only be brought about through your connection with each other.

You two shared a strong physical attraction from the start your partner, especially, looks at the two of you together and still thinks how wonderful you look as a couple. There is a certain level of vanity to this relationship, but not at all in a bad way. You both simply feel that you've found what you're looking for in one another. Your romantic connection is strong and your affection for one another runs deep.

In this relationship, you two can focus on being yourselves, fully and completely. You can talk about all your cutting edge ideas and your lover gives form to your ways of thinking. It may be through networking you two are probably be quite social together, going out to see and be seen or it could simply be through bringing your ideas to your partner and allowing them to help you brainstorm, to make them even better and more unique.

There is something mysterious, even confusing between you that will always obscure something more important your partner's true feelings for you, perhaps, or their identity as an individual. It might be that you simply can't see them for the person that they truly are, because something below the emotional surface of your relationship muddies your view. This is as difficult to pinpoint as it is to understand, but the effects are felt by both of you. Your lover might have hurt feelings that they refuse to talk about, and they'll insist everything is fine, even though both of you know that's not true.

When the Moon in comparative charts are in opposition there is a tendency to mirror and polarize one another's emotional moods, thus triggering strong emotional response in each other. Difficulties can arise in this situation if your respective moods are out of harmony because you will both be in a bad mood at the same time. You must work especially hard to understand each other's moods and feeling. There is also likely to be a near mirror image between your backgrounds and family upbringing.

This is one of the most difficult and emotionally explosive of all comparative aspects. The Mars person is likely to be impatient with the Moon person. Conversely, the Moon may view Mars as rude, insensitive and overbearing. This combination is likely to produce emotional clashes and arguments. It is unfavorable for marriage and living together, although the physical attraction of the aspect does frequently result in the development of relationships.

This aspect often presents communication problems. Mercury reacts on a rational level while the Moon is tuned in on a more emotional level. Consequently, you find it difficult to understand each other. The Mercury person may seem nagging, over-critical or nit-picking to the Moon person. This combination often shows disagreements over diet, everyday practical affairs, financial expenditures, and domestic and family issues.

This comparative combination indicates the possibility of an insincere or somewhat hypocritical relationship. There may be a pandering to each other's weaknesses and self-indulgent tendencies. As parents, you may be inclined to be overly protective to children or to each other. You may join in unwise financial endeavors or be extravagant in expenditures together.

This is one of the best combinations for a romantic attraction. You really enjoy each other's company. You are sexually attracted, and have a sympathetic, emotional harmony with each other. You enjoy an attitude of mutual consideration and kindness.

Unless there are many other strong, positive aspects to your relationship that strengthen a feeling of support and understanding between you, this period could be the deal-breaker. The problem is a certain level of natural competition and irritation that occurs when you're together: Your lover just gets under your skin on a variety of levels. The energy that is created when you're in one another's company runs hot and high; it stimulates quite a powerful physical attraction between you, and make you downright hungry for this person, and vice versa. Even though you make up things fast back to each other,but it's not a great influence for a long-term bond. The likelihood is also that you are a couple who argues passionately and then kisses and makes up even more passionately.

As a couple, your combined energies really create something spectacular and that could start in the bedroom. You're highly attracted to each other, with a very passionate bond. You express your desires in some very similar ways, so you don't have many chances or reasons to misread each other's signals. You feel stimulated when you're together, awake, aware, tuned in to all the possibilities that the world has to offer you.

You love being together, no matter what you're doing whether you're talking and laughing, taking a walk, seeing a movie or whatnot, you have a great time. However you spend your time as a couple, you both enjoy yourselves immensely. If one of you is feeling down or pessimistic, you only have to be around your partner for a few minutes before you start to perk up again.

When you're feeling tuned in and affectionate, wanting to connect on an intimate level, your partner is cool and aloof, emotionally unavailable. Your sexual rhythms are off, and your timing isn't the best when it comes to finding times when you're both ready to go. You may frequently end up feeling rejected and unloved. You both have lot of expectations from each other which does not get fulfilled and the issue starts. You just rebel against the attempts to control you, which leads to indiscriminate behavior in the name of pure rebellion. Your own shortcomings are projected onto each other; you get mad at each other for possessing the qualities that you like least in yourselves.

An adventuresome bent is the focus between you two. For some couples, this kind of influence could just be unsettling, but you two thrive on it, and you're able to create a comfortable, yet exciting stability between you. This could be a relationship that lasts forever, and yet you still feel the excitement as though it were a short fling. Your partner is the idea person and you're the one to take them and run with them, making them become real.

Getting along with each other is the tricky part of this relationship. You both try to express yourselves in the ways that you know how, but your ways are directly in conflict with your partner's. Small irritations can turn into bigger misunderstandings, and then that impulsive reaction mode clicks into place and then your partner, especially, forgets to be tactful and kind in their rush to get at you.

Any other difficult aspects that exist between you could be worsened by this one, because it is such a challenge for you to communicate well. You may verge away from the realm of friendly, flirtatious debate and more into actual intellectual challenges, in which you try to defeat each other using such unpleasant tactics as criticism and putting each other down for your differences in opinion. But what to do when you're both right, in your own way.

The differences of opinion between the two of you have become more and more apparent and tricky to deal with over time. There has been some struggle, silent or stated, over how serious or superficial you two really are. You might end up feeling like your lover challenges you on a deep level, and you could respond by overdoing it overstating your beliefs, for example, or how serious a subject is to you.

This aspect helps you smooth over any rough patches that may occur in your relationship, because you instinctively know when to make a compromise in order to keep things harmonious. It's not that you are a pushover when it comes to your lover; you certainly stand up for your position when it's truly important. Harmony will be a focus between you, an ideal that you work hard to attain together. You don't want to argue with each other much, and if you have other more aggressive aspects between you, this one greatly tones down that troublesome energy.

This is a very dynamic relationship, but in ways that at least challenge you and make you two very uncomfortable. The problem is that too many ideas come together and try to assert themselves. You create a very exciting and spontaneous energy when you're together, but it may prove to be a little too much to handle from time to time.

This aspect helps you smooth over any rough patches that may occur in your relationship, because you instinctively know when to make a compromise in order to keep things harmonious. It's not that your lover is a pushover when it comes to you; they certainly stand up for their position when it's truly important. But harmony is a focus between you, an ideal that you work hard to attain together. You don't want to argue with each other much, and if you have other more aggressive aspects between you, this one greatly tones down that troublesome energy.

The two of you together are like a pendulum always swinging back and forth from one extreme to the other, never finding that happy medium. In the beginning, it was a true case of opposites attract: You instinctively recognized that here was a person who's your exact opposite when it comes to love and romance. You might also project your needs onto each other in such a big way that you forget to pay attention to each other's needs, because you're so engrossed in the importance of your own.

Don't expect this to be a fun, frivolous affair, because you, especially, get serious fast. If you have a problem to solve or a project to work on, together you give it a much more concentrated effort than you might on your own. Your lover probably comes to depend on your point of view if you are in a long-term relationship, because you give them such solid, practical advice. This aspect could have a bit of a difficult side to it, as well; if they aren't used to being thorough in their thinking, they're challenged to think things through in a much more careful way.

Your blend of creativity and practicality makes this relationship a supportive haven for both of you. You both know that you can bring your problems to the table, whether they're personal problems or issues related to work or anything else, and together, you figure out how to solve them. Clear communication and practical innovations are your forte as a couple. You communicate well with each other and you treat each other with generosity.

Ordinarily, the differences in your personalities might be too much for you to handle. You're a more traditional person than your partner, and their sense of spontaneity and rebellion runs directly counter to your hardworking, methodical approach to life. But in this particular relationship, your opposing qualities actually work well together. It's a case of bringing your own gifts to the table, in order to benefit you both as a couple.

You naturally take a practical view of life; you trust in the things that you can see, touch, feel and otherwise count on in a tangible way. You believe in hard work and responsibility, and anything more abstract than that seems untrustworthy or out-and-out silly to you. But there's a whole other side of things the intangible, the instinctive, even the psychic and your partner has a good grasp on these concepts. They lead with their gut, acting on instinct and reaching out as often with their mind as they do with their hands.

One word describes your relationship: conflict. At first it might be infrequent or mild, but as your involvement deepens, you go head to head more and more often. Unfortunately it's much more likely that there are painful disagreements that cut into both your souls.

From the first date, your conversations didn't follow the usual tracks. Instead of talking about your likes and dislikes, your jobs and your families and yada, yada, yada, you got off on wild and crazy tangents that had both of you cracking up, howling with laughter, and really appreciating this new, interesting person's company. The better you get to know each other, the more this is true. You're an idea couple, but with just a little extra planning, you put your ideas to work.

You don't want to be like everyone else; you want to be your own, brand-new kind of couple, and you make that happen by following wherever your moods take you. This is a highly creative and social relationship; you have a lot of fun exploring the world together. Your lover feels like they've never known anyone like you before, but it's more accurate to say no one has ever made them feel this way before. Strange and beautiful things happen when you're together, things you don't expect that make great stories for years to come.

Even if your partner doesn't start out being overly traditional in their values regarding commitment, duty and so on, they could become more so in this relationship, because of your rebellious insistence on independence. The bad news is, their natural response may be to cling tighter and tighter, which only causes you to run even more determinedly in the opposite direction. The gulf between you widens as your perceptions of each other solidify they take on the role as the controlling, overly needy or demanding partner, while you're the rebellious and unreliable one who can't be counted on. Neither of these characterizations are exactly fair; it's just that you bring out these qualities in each other, because you're both naturally looking out for yourselves and your own interests in the relationship.

The emotional connection between you is powerful and deep, right from the get-go. You may not even be aware of it as such; you simply felt connected right away, even before you knew one another well. You're highly sensitive to their moods, and you respect their feelings.

Under this influence, honesty is hard to come by and communication gets very confusing and difficult. You could even become passive-aggressive with your partner, pretending things are fine when really they aren't fine at all, jabbing them with little hurtful comments that indicate things aren't well between you. Don't misunderstand this tendency it's not that you're a bad or a mean person. After all, they might not be perfectly honest with you, either; you might try to talk to them about your feelings or your problems, and they fake interest or concern because they really don't get what you're talking about or why you feel like you do.

Though you might get along really well for a time, you realize after a while that there's some sort of disconnect in your communication. This could be a major pattern of willful dishonesty, but it's more likely to be as minor and intangible as you holding a part of yourself back due to insecurity or past experiences and then your lover follows suit, because they feel vulnerable and self-protective when they pick up on this strange vibe. Of course, when we're courting a new lover and falling in love, it's perfectly natural to put our best face forward but doing so hides that whole other side of ourselves that comes out later, the side that isn't so kind and smart and well-thought-out. You two might have gotten involved with each other before you really knew each other, so your expressions of affection might be less than sincere you might not even be certain of your own heart.

Do you really know each other as well as you think you do. In the beginning, when you were first getting to know each other, there could have been a lot of philosophical or spiritual talk, exchanging of ideas, comparing of notes. You probably feel uplifted by each other here is someone, you think, who's right in line with what I believe. The more that you idealize each other, the harder it is to see the differences between you until it's too late meaning, when those differences hit you over the head in an unpleasant way, because you're finally unable to ignore them.

You come together for a bigger purpose, a spiritual ideal which, granted, isn't the most romantic thing two lovers can do together. If your lover tends to be a cynical, pessimistic type (though they might call themselves realistic!), this relationship helps them to open up their soul a little bit and soften that hardened shell they've developed as a response to what can seem like an unstable world. After all, their cynicism is just a defense mechanism they've developed as a response to various experiences that life has served up for them; it's not necessarily an accurate representation of the way the world really works. You help your lover start to believe in magic again, and they, in return, help you to stay grounded in reality.

Since you're close in age, musically and artistically, you're a wonderful match. Music and films are a big focus for you as well, and a great activity for you two could be a trip to an art gallery or going to see a movie or a show. You're dreamy together; your feelings for each other quickly move into the realm of the fantastical. Since you have such a dreamy connection, you could spend a lot of time in this other world of your own creation which could be a good thing or a bad one.

The effects of this aspect are probably subtle, but that doesn't mean they can't be important. You have a tender and compassionate heart, and you've always wanted to make a difference in the world to make it a better place for someone in need, perhaps, or even just to contribute to the greater good by being the kindest, most compassionate person you can. If there's a cause that's meaningful to both of you, by all means, pursue it you could get further as a team than either of you would have on your own.

The bond between you is powerful and transformative. On a physical level, this person responds to you with a deep and compelling passion, one that is enhanced by a strong emotional sensuality. You're able to provide them with a lot of support and encourage them to pursue their ambitions. Not just career-related ambitions, either.

Together you two accomplish just about anything you put your minds to, withering the competition, turning obstacles to dust and achieving greatness. So how are you going to use this special, powerful influence?You each have special gifts; the sense of direction and focus that comes naturally to your partner, for example, are useful to you in finding a target for your penetrating insight. Also, don't neglect the powerful sexual connection this aspect lends you.

Jealousy, emotional manipulation, possessiveness and control could become major components of this relationship if you're not careful to sort out your feelings right from the get-go. That's when the trouble starts. This kind of emotional extreme can lead the best of us toward urges of possession and manipulation, although dominating each other never brings real satisfaction for either partner.

Especially if there are other positive communication aspects between you, this one really helps to lend purpose and stability to your relationship, as long as you keep the lines of your communication open. Each of you is on a lifelong growth trajectory, and a relationship between you really benefits both of you because you support each other's ways of learning, growing, transforming and shaping your lives. You both mature through the course of this relationship.

The effects of this aspect are probably subtle, but that doesn't mean they aren't important. Your lover has a tender and compassionate heart, and they've always wanted to make a difference in the world to make it a better place for someone in need, perhaps, or even just to contribute to the greater good by being the kindest, most compassionate person they can. They treat everyone around them with respect, and the way that they naturally are is an inspiration to you, as you have deep wells of power and emotion that could be paired up with this person's sense of compassion for great results. The two of you together equals personal power plus strength of ideals.

This is an aspect that each of you shares with all your friends that are near the same age as you, give or take a couple of years. Pop cultural references abound between you; you're able to reminisce together about your favorite TV shows and movies as a kid, your favorite songs that you used to listen to on the radio, what was your first tape, record or CD . .. You have a great time talking about the good old days, since you come from the same ones. And anything you missed, you're able to catch each other up on.